Hi everyone
Just need to vent because I’m really upset and if possible someone view.
I’ve been poorly through my whole pregnancy (29weeks today) my partner has been good up till last 2 weeks or so and now he is distant.
He has a daughter already and this is my first pregnancy. I’ve always felt insecure that my baby wouldn’t be as special to him and that he has done it all before so My pregnancy wouldn’t mean as much but I’ve never expressed that to him i know that my issues not him.
However..
Last night I woke up choking on sick and ran to bathroom to throw up for like the 10th time that day 😫
Anyway when I got back in bed I woke my partner up to say I’m poorly (just wanted a bit of a cuddle) and he said oh ffs I’m asleep! I left him to sleep and this morning I wake up in agony with my back and baba squirming away so impossible to sleep. I got up and partner twisted that I woke him and he turned over and went back to sleep.
He finally came downstairs as I was leaving to go to work and I said how he has been is Nasty and (selfishly I know but I wanted a reaction) I said I bet he wouldn’t have treated his ex like this when she was pregnant and he would’ve looked after her.
He turned around and said well that’s completely different.
I’ve stormed out the house really hurt because now what if my fears are true? What if everything I’ve thought about me and my baby being second to him is true?
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hollyindie · 05/11/2017 10:46
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