Dd is 3.5. She has been out of daytime nappies for over a year and is dry in the day but she has daily poo accidents. Today she has had several and I am at the end of my tether.
She has always been a bit odd about poo. For ages she had a poo in her nappy first thing in the morning and rarely at any other time but if she did it was almost always in her pants.
That pattern seems to have come to an end and she will just poo in her pants at any time of day now. It went really haywire when she started pre school and she was having several accidents a day. She was on movicol for a while which got her back to a more manageable one accident per day but we were making no progress with the toilet/potty though she will happily use either for wees.
After a couple of months of just dealing with it and not making a fuss we seemed to make a small amount of progress with some successes in the potty but it wasn't reliable and now seems to have got worse again. She hasn't had a poo in the potty for a week now and is again having bits of poos in her knickers throughout the day.
I have just changed her for the fifth time and am trying to get her to drink some movicol which is a battle even mixed with juice but I feel so upset and down. She starts school in september and I can't see us making any progress really. Nursery and health visitors have no suggestions. Nursery were really unhelpful at first but we have resolved that and they now deal with the accidents without complaint but it still dominates all their feedback and I am feeling like it's going to ruin her school experience too.
Has anyone any experience or ideas? We have had our best successes with rewards but these are very limited really. She will happily sit on the potty for ages but nothing happens.
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3.5 year old's poo accidents really getting me down. any advice?
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longestlurkerever · 11/01/2015 17:13
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