Hi, I'm not sure what to do about my cats' behaviour towards my toddler DS.
One of them has always been temperamental, and lashes out fairly often. We know her and its been mostly ok, we know when to leave her alone. The other has been my 'baby' since we got them both, she is a lap cat and very affectionate.
Before I had DS, and for ages after, I was always very sure I'd never rehome them, and couldn't understand anyone who would. But lately I've been concerned about DS. We try and keep them apart as much as possible, but its hard to do all the time, and now as he's getting older he's goes up to them and tries to touch them. He's been scratched once already, and they lash out at him frequently. Not when they are cornered either, which I could understand, they have the option to leave the situation and choose to attack instead.
They have spaces where he doesn't go, so it's not like they are feeling threatened, there are places they could go where he can't bother them. It worries me that as he gets older he'll be unsupervised and get attacked by them. It might sound daft, but it can really hurt, I have a scar myself from the temperamental one. And there is a risk of infection, what if he gets scratched in the eye?
The idea of him being hurt, even a tiny bit, upsets me so much and I don't know if I can live with the situation as it is. I don't know what to do, maybe they just can't live with children?
Please don't flame me, I have had them for 9 years and I love them a lot, I'm just not sure if this is going to work any more. Has anyone else had similar problems, were they fixable?
Thanks for any advice, I'd really like to find a solution x
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nightowlmostly · 20/09/2013 21:02
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