Dh rarely makes it home in time to help me at bedtime and I'm struggling to get the bedtimes right at the moment. DD is 5.5 months and ds is 2.9 and currently I bath them together at about 6.15 and when they're dry and dressed we go downstairs to have milk, ds has a cup of milk while watching the end of cbeebies, and I bf dd. If I'm lucky she falls asleep and I take her upstairs and put her in her cot then take ds up to bed and read him a couple of bedtime stories.
However increasingly dd isn't falling asleep during her last feed, and she's shockingly bad at self settling. If I put her in her cot she screams blue murder and I end up running between her room and ds's, reading him a couple of pages of his book then dashing back to her to shhh and hold her hand for a minute until she calms down again.
Should I change the bedtime routine, or is there a genius way of getting her to self settle? I can't leave ds on his own for ages while I try and settle dd, but if I take her in to his room and lie her on his bed to read them both stories she just screams her head off too. I can't put ds to bed first because I can't leave dd on her own. Argh, I just can't get my head round how to do it!!!
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Just how do you put a baby and a toddler to bed on your own?
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HeadFairy · 17/06/2010 21:41
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