My life feels a lot like Groundhog Day at the moment. I have been freelancing but work situation is pretty bad at the moment and although I thought I could be a SAHM at least temporarily, I'm really struggling with it. I just wake up every day to the same routine washing, cleaning kitchen, feeding, dressing, running errands etc and I really seem to have lost my lust for life. I feel really bad for poor DD because I'm sure I'm not doing enough with her. She's sleeping at the moment and I've got a hundred and one chores to do before she wakes. But then the thought of choosing between the same pair of playgrounds this afternoon and spending an hour and a half watching her go up and down the same slide etc before heading home for dinner, bath, bedtime etc is really getting me down. I feel so guilty writing this because she's an absolute joy and I'm so lucky to have a happy healthy adorable little girl but I feel so lethargic and find it so hard to motivate myself. I'm just coming up to 10 weeks pregnant which might be part of it but I'm scared that I'm just a miserable, moaning Mum who has no imagination and doesn't know how to appreciate what she's got.
Do any of you struggle with being SAHMs and if so what do you do to make yourself snap out of it. Do you have a daily/weekly routine? How do you introduce variety? What stuff do you do with your DCs? (mine is 19 months) How do you keep on top of the housework? How do you stay upbeat and positive? all thoughts gratefully received?
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A long afternoon with toddler stretches in front of me and I'm all out of ideas. Any thoughts?
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itsalwaysthequietones · 27/07/2009 14:20
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