...or is it just me?
I am having a really hard time with my ds age almost 6. I also have 2 dd's age 7 and 3. The dd's have their difficult moments, like any child, but ds is another story. If he is not around for whatever reason we have a lovely calm house and everyone is happy. But when he is there (basically whenever he's not at school) it's chaos.
He wrecks whatever his sisters try to do, he barges into everything and causes arguments and fights, he has massive tantrums if he doesn't get 100% what he wants, he screams if I ask him to do something, anything.
We have tried reward charts, time-out, positive reinforcement, all the usual, but nothing much seems to have an effect. But that's not really the issue here - I feel I can just about "manage" him, but God he is bloody hard work. It feels like such a slog, I feel I can't leave him much with the others as problems arise within minutes, and it's just so hard to like/enjoy him.
He demands so much of my attention the girls are missing out. We do our best to give them all one to one. There is obviously still some jealousy but not sure what more we could do. I find myself imagining doing things with just the 2 girls and how much easier and more enjoyable it would be, then I feel guilty for thinking that. I love him so much and when I look at him sleeping I wonder why he drives me so crazy.
Can anyone relate to this?
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alwaysmoving · 22/03/2009 14:01
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