I'm living in the States and today I'm flying home to the UK without dh and my 2 dc's - ds (4) and dd (1). I have to go to spend time with my best friend who recently had a stillbirth - I couldn't get back for the funeral and feel it's important to be there for her now.
Anyway, dh and I decided that it would be easiest if I went on my own and now the time has come, I'm a wreck! I have left them before for the odd night (like, once or twice with the IL's) but I've only been down the road from them, and the thought of flying across the Atlantic and being so far is making me feel sick. I hardly slept last night! What if the plane crashes? Am I doing the wrong thing here?
My ds was begging me last night not to go - he's a sensitive soul and it was breaking my heart.
Tell me if this sounds the best way to do this - I don't think I'll be able to say goodbye to them without ds having a total meltdown - these episodes are so hard to cope with - so my dh is going to take them both out to the shops to buy him a new dvd and some treats, and I'll slip away while they're out. Is this cruel or the easiest way to do this?
Has anyone ever had to leave their dc's behind before? How do you so it?
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damnfinefilly · 16/02/2008 12:06
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