Hi
Not really sure if I will make any sense in what I am about to say.
My only ds is now 7 years old and although I have tried my best with him I am so disappointed in my relationship with him now.
I always thought we would share alot of joys together get along and have fun.
Instead I seem to have raised a cheeky, mouthy, back chatting monster.
I just don't seem to be able to get along with him these days and feel as though I am always at loggerheads with him.
He likes everything his way and if things are not going his way he plays up terrible.
It is an effort getting out of the house with him if its not somewhere he wants to go.
If I need to go out to carry out a essential task such as pay a bill he will sit defiantly on the stairs not moving because he does not want to go.
He is happy to just sit and watch the telly and if I suggest we take a trip to the park or anything he will just shout quite ignorantly no to me.
If I tell him off for his behaviour he copies what I say.
The other day we went to town and he complained the whole time that his legs were aching and then he decided to sit on the floor in a crowded shop and refused to get up.
After asking him several times to get up I had to pull him up myself I then pulled him to one side and gave him a good ticking off.
He then unexpectedly hit me in the side.
This is not the first time he has lashed out.
All I ever wanted was a happy nice child that I could get along with but instead this is what I put up with.
He also hates going to bed and he will sit on the stairs refusing to move until eventually I have to carry him up kicking and screaming.
I feel responsible in that maybe there is things I shoud have done differently with him and that maybe I have spoilt him.
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Disappointed in how relationship with ds has turned out
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zez · 14/02/2008 21:25
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