today we went looking for a new coat for ds 2.5 and went to mothercare etc but couldn't find one however at each shop we went to he kept saking if he could look for drumstix [ he is into music BIG time ] and i kept jollying him along saying maybe later because you see he has been asking for at least 2 weeks but dh got made redundant a couple of weeks back and so we are watching the pennies -anyways we go to the next store -toysrus and dh and lo stay in car i go in to look for vests and said coat but nothing but they have got a musical set with everything my lo could dream of for 6.99 , so i have a dilemma do i get it or not so i go back out to car to discuss with dh and the first thing ds says is drumstix mama with a big smile and i say i sorry little man but they haven't got any to which he starts crying and i don't mean in a spoilt way but in a sad way so i whisper to dh that they do and he says no we really can't to which i get teary and then so does dh and he says oh just go get it and so ds very very happy but when i relayed this to my friend she said we had made the worst mistake ever by giving into his crying- have we -cos he really doesn't get that much and he is not spoilt far from it but did we do the wrong thing -because it broke my heart to see him like that in fact it makes me want to cry now
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