4 year old dsd constantly tells fibs.
Sometimes they are pretty harmless and quite amusing (like the lady with the pink hair who crept into the room and ate all the crisps) and other times they are slightly more concerning.
Yesterday, she came home from nursery with a plaster on her arm. I asked how she had done it and she told me that one of the boys at nursery had done it. This particular boy is quite often apparently responsible for various mishaps. She did say it was accidental but we were a bit concerned that they are allowed to use scissors capable of drawing blood and aren't closely supervised enough to prevent accidents.
Later, dp asked how she'd done and she said she didn't know and thought she had caught it on the corner of a table. When questioned about the different stories, she admitted she didn't know how she did it.
We just mentioned it in nursery today (not making a big thing of it, it was only a tiny cut etc.) and they weren't sure how it was done, but the boy she initially mentioned wasn't even at nursery yesterday and they weren't doing any cutting.
This is just an example of one lie. She seems to constantly tell them. Is this just an extension of a 4 year old's "imaginative play" ? Should we be doing anything to stop it or will she just grow out of it and in the meantime, we take a lot of what she says with a pinch of salt ?
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TillyScoutsmum · 13/02/2008 10:51
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