9 days ago my 10mo suddenly started being really difficult to bed to bed. He’s never been a great sleeper, but generally speaking we’ve never had much of an issue putting him down for bed.
He’s EBF and I feed him to sleep, rock him for a little while and then put down asleep. At the moment he will be tricky to get to sleep (pulling his hair, ear, hitting himself in the head and throwing his arms and legs around while feeding or rocking). Will eventually fall asleep, but then as soon as put down is instantly awake and screaming.
We did go through a phase of not being able to put him down when he was 5 months old which went on two months and we ended up letting him sleep on us and we slept in shifts, until we intervened and started putting him down awake. We only did this for a few weeks though, as couldn’t hack that there was always tears at bedtime. Reverted back to feeding to sleep and it had worked ever since, until recently.
Now he has had one of his top teeth cut through around the time this started, but not sure if that’s responsible as still going on a week later. The same thing happens when he wakes in the night - hard to get back to sleep, won’t go back down.
Does anyone have any suggestions?! I’m feeling completely worn out after over a week of spending 2-3hrs a night trying to get him to bed, and same all over again on his wakeups. He’s ended up sleeping in the pram a couple of nights as no matter what we did he wouldn’t go in his cot 😭
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Suddenly having 2-3hr bedtime battles with 10mo- help!
MintGreenLife · 16/05/2022 21:26
converseandjeans · 18/05/2022 22:02
molliscious
I think it depends on how important sleep is vs keeping breast feeding. I was quite focused on getting my sleep so mine did have hungry baby milk once they were older. So I guess that's a decision only the OP can make.
converseandjeans · 18/05/2022 07:33
molliscious
This is ridiculous advice for an EBF baby, and hungry baby milk shouldn't be given unless advised by a medical professional anyway.
Why is it ridiculous? The baby is 10 months & presumably on solids too. It's more ridiculous to continue with current set up where baby is possibly still hungry at bedtime & stays awake as a result.
converseandjeans · 18/05/2022 07:33
molliscious
This is ridiculous advice for an EBF baby, and hungry baby milk shouldn't be given unless advised by a medical professional anyway.
Why is it ridiculous? The baby is 10 months & presumably on solids too. It's more ridiculous to continue with current set up where baby is possibly still hungry at bedtime & stays awake as a result.
MintGreenLife · 16/05/2022 21:45
We do two naps a day, we only recently dropped the third nap. Surely he’s too young to go down to one nap?! He’s also obviously really tired at bedtime…he just fights it 🤷🏻♀️
converseandjeans · 16/05/2022 21:48
Go to one main nap at lunch & see if you can give maybe a top up feed at 10pm of hungry baby milk.
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MintGreenLife · 16/05/2022 21:45
We do two naps a day, we only recently dropped the third nap. Surely he’s too young to go down to one nap?! He’s also obviously really tired at bedtime…he just fights it 🤷🏻♀️
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