My 13 year old son tends to have more money than my 8 year old son. This is because he gets given money at christmas and birthdays while ds2 gets toys, we give him slightly more pocket money than ds2 as he does more chores and is older, and he saves some of his school dinner money.
So, when I take both sons out, my oldest son usually has a few pounds on him. This means in theory he is free to buy sweets, fizzy drinks or whatever else takes his fancy - pokemon cards, comics etc. This freedom to shop really winds up my younger son who thinks it's unfair that my older son has these treats.
Sadly, ds1 takes pleasure in winding up ds2 about his spending power. I don't want to be forced into buying ds2 sweets, fizzy drinks and comics etc just to keep the peace.
So, I have banned ds1 from buying any sort of food or drink or treat for himself when we are out with ds2. Is this the best solution and how do other people cope with pocket money spending in front of skint younger siblings?
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Telling my ds1 (13) that he can't buy sweets or treats with his own money in front of my ds2 (8) as it is a wind up
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tigermoth · 04/01/2008 20:46
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