Hi, just looking for some advice/opinions on getting into routine with baby. I’m a first time mum and DD will be 5 weeks old tomorrow.
At the moment, we have no routine at all - she generally goes between 2 and 3 hours for feeds (formula fed) and will wake wanting a bottle. I just feed her on demand and look for her hunger cues and the same with sleep, she generally falls back asleep after being fed or I rock/hold her to sleep and put her down in her Moses basket in whatever room I’m in. At night time she is downstairs with us until whenever we go to bed which is often late as I find it less stressful sometimes to stay awake rather than up and down every 2 hours. She is very upside down atm with her body clock and doesn’t sleep as well at night, we have a snuz pod next to the bed and she either feeds to sleep or is rocked and then transferred into the crib. She has started having more awake time the last week or so but this is just on her terms and she’s sometimes awake in the middle of the night for 2 or more hours. I’ve read lots of conflicting things around routines etc and just wanted some more insight really.
Should I be attempting a routine at this stage? How do I go about helping to adjust her body clock? She doesn’t have a bedtime as I thought she was too young to sleep upstairs on her own yet? I’ve also read about awake times in the day (trying to keep baby awake) and starting the day at the same time each morning but I don’t really wake her from sleep as I thought this was counter productive. I’m just a bit confused as to how I’d go about all this, or if I even should be at this stage and should I just keep going with the flow… I would like some structure for myself really more than anything but don’t want to push something on DD too early.
Any opinions or examples of routines, book recommendations etc would be much appreciated
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Northernsoul90 · 05/10/2021 10:19
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