Hello, this is a question for more experienced parents than me. Apologies if it's been asked a million times before - I have done a quick search - without much luck.
My dd(4) has recently started to express definite opinions about who she wants to invite home for play dates - and who she doesn't.
Should I go along with these preferences or should I still have an influence in her choice of friends?
The reason I ask is that the friendships in her class seem to change pretty rapidly from day to day. I have tried to discourage dd's friendship with one particular girl who seems to be quite aggressive (she came for a disastrous play-date once with her mother who said nothing when her dd hit mine over the head quite hard with the wrong end of a tennis racket ) but there is another girl in her class who (owing to language problems) doesn't have many friends and I've been trying to encourage a friendship but my dd is not keen. DD has now been invited to this girl's birthday party. (I've explained that we shouldn't accept the invitation if dd is not prepared to invite her here for a playdate in return.)
I know I'm probably making heavy weather of this but would welcome some practical advice pls. Don't want to be an over-controlling mummy but is 4 too young to have complete freedom when choosing friends?
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Countingthegreyhairs · 24/10/2007 15:00
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