My eldest two DDs have 18 months between them and are one school year apart.
When they were little, they were so sweet and inseparable, but now they are 11 + 12 , and in Y7 and Y8, they are so competitive. :(
They are at the same school and the eldest greatly resents this, and says it's 'her school'. DD1 is tall, skinny and pretty much good at everything while DD2 is bright, but not so physically able and is shorter and bigger. She is also about to be assessed for ASD/ ADD, so is more challenged in life than her older sister. She shouldn't be considered a 'threat', yet DD1 is always accusing her of copying her and being embarrassing.
DD2 is quite socially embarrassing sometimes, I see that but she's so upset at how her older sister treats her and hates being in her sister's shadow.
It's awful to see:(
They have their own rooms but do do a lot of the same activities, although DD1 gets to do stuff DD2 doesn't.
Does anyone have children with a similar age gap who have a similar relationship? Does it improve when they get older?
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Does anyone else have same sex siblings one school year apart?
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FiveHoursSleep · 27/09/2014 22:27
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