I have two daughters, 14 months apart, now 5yrs and 4 yrs. They are wonderful children.. but. I find the noise, the lack of ability to concentrate on one of them. the squabbling all too much. The younger one will still cry loudly so that I cannot understand what she is saying if the two of them squabble. Yes they do play together, they are developmentally not too far apart (but you can see the difference). They like the same things. But I feel anxious when I pick them up from kindergarten every lunchtime (we are abroad) and I have the afternoon everyday with both of them. I shout far too much and ge irritated with them. I was trying to put english telly on for them yestrday on the computer through the telly and it was not working an They started to mess around and I ended up shouting, I just feel the tension rising in me . Everything feels stressful. I enjoy playing card games with them and it is about the only thing I do enjoy.
I need to change my attitude, see things differently. i get every morning alone so I am sure a lot of people would say why are you not happy.
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5 yrs on I have concluded I am not suited to having two children, how do I turn my thinking around?
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teller999 · 31/10/2012 13:28
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