Why do other mums feel the need to tell you how to bring up your kids?
Two friends in particular always feel the need to make a big song and dance if they feel my child is slightly over/under dressed for the weather - "Ooh poor x, she must be really cold, let's cover up those little legs/arms/feet" etc - they've done it to me a couple of times recently! And I've heard them do it to other mums too.
What it achieves is (momentarily) making you feel like a s**t mum - and often in front of other people to boot!
I live on a hill with the sun streaming in through the window in the morning so when I'm walking down the drive it always feels hotter than it really is - so I always make sure I take extra clothes in the buggy to cover them up if needed.
I would never dream of commenting on how other people dress their kids - only in v extreme circumstances - eg a child playing in the snow in a t-shirt or in jumpers in 80 degree heat etc. But otherwise I would trust their judgement - it's their child after all.
Why do people think it's ok to interfere in this way. AIBU?
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Wishes other mums would butt out!
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zozzle · 17/09/2010 09:43
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