I love the idea of having people over to our house but worry so much about the reality that I normally end up not doing it.
I've realised that I really need to address this urgently after two things happened this week:
- both DS and DD1 want to have friends for sleepovers. We've had a couple of sleepovers here before - they went absolutely fine but I worry so much that the visitors are not going to enjoy themselves, I feel tense the whole time they're here and tbh am looking forward to them going home
- my friend has asked me to look after her children next week as she's stuck for childcare. They're not friends of my kids so I'm now worrying that they're going to hate being here
We don't have people over very often and if I'm honest, I've let the kids having friends for tea slide because I just want to come home with my own children and shut the door.
Please help me with this - I want our home to have an "open door" policy, especially with the teen years coming up but I seem to be the biggest barrier to this happening at the moment