Could I have some opinions, please?
My three year old has now complained three times about going to her (private, as I have to work) nursery because one boy in particular keeps hitting. This morning was the third time I made staff aware of what this boy is doing. I told my daughter that if someone is hurting her, she must tell me and I will put an end to it.
I just picked her up and spoke to the room leader. She said that they are aware of this boy's behaviour and that each time he hits another child he is dealt with and his parents are made aware and they punish him too. They are looking for an ADHD diagnosis. While I sympathise with the parents, am I wrong to feel anxious about sending my daughter to nursery where she could be hit and pushed? The room leader told me that my daughter stayed by her side today; making me think that her fear is causing her to lose her independence.
The room leader also told me that the three-year-olds in the room are quite boisterous and often play rough and can accidentally hurt each other - is this acceptable nursery behaviour? I'm worried that I can't keep my own child safe.
Would love to hear from someone who has been in a similar situation.
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user1468255705 · 11/07/2016 18:12
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