Hello ladies, I know this is a really sensitive topic with lots of different opinions on it, but I have one DS who is 4 and half years old, his personality is very hyper and boisterous which caused me to have a few years age gap before I was ready for another, I fell pregnant after he turned 3 and my lovely DS2 is now 7 weeks old.
Now the thing is, I've always only ever wanted 2 kids because it's hard being a mum and financiallyl demanding, I'm a full time mum so that pressure is on DH and I would imagine is more manageable with 2 children.
But I always imagined myself to have atleast one daughter in the mix. I don't. I have my 2 healthy children but they are boys, love them and wouldn't change them but after the birth of DS2 I have found myself uncontrollably low about not getting that girl, I have shared this with DH who says I should be grateful for 2 healthy children but he knows I've had a life long yearning for a girl so completely understands.
I would like to get over these feelings. I can't imagine having 3 children, it must be hard even though I contemplate a chance the 3rd could be a girl.
Any advice to help me feel better even if it's a snap into reality kind of advice, I need it!!
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fateisfate · 25/08/2017 19:36
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