RELATIONSHIPS 🌟
Who else struggles…. I have never had a good relationship really (I’m 40 and have three kids and a failed marriage).
I realise that I never have consistent feelings towards the person I’m with.
I cycle between yeah they are so nice, I feel so happy to…. Shit this isn’t for me and I can’t do this and then I pick apart this person in my head. This then leads to me pushing them away and then me exploding and saying I’m not happy. Then just like that I feel ok again.……
I’m sick of it because in the midst of gives me such bad agony and anxiety.
I’m going to be alone forever arnt…. Maybe this is something I want?!!!
Also, if your honest with your other half that this is how you are and honest about what you realistically can ‘give’ them…. Does that absolve your responsibility for thier feelings? Because I always just feel guilt that I’m going to hurt them…… like what if I never want to progress the relationship to living With them. I guess I just want and am able to deal with a ‘boyfriend’ not a partner in crime.
Help… pls say u relate or have advise or that this is normal!!!!
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Grenola · 15/11/2022 08:23
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18/11/2022 13:23
Grenola · 15/11/2022 16:36
They ‘have’…. Loosely but husband had some very rigid ways of living. And I totally lost my voice and me in it all.
this current relationship is the opposite, he adores me and embraces all of me…. And I don’t hide or mask anything.
but my interest in him is up and down…. Like I am with everything (adhd)
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