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Awkward questions you've always wanted to ask someone who works in a specific job...

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PinocchiosLeftNostril · 08/10/2013 12:32

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I thought this would be a good way for us to get answers to those awkward questions we would never dream of asking someone to their face in their place of work.

These are questions relating to my life that i would love honest answers to.

Hairdressers - When someone with bad dandruff/psoriasis sits on your chair, do you shrug it off, or do you quickly have a look to make sure it's not lice? Are you able to tell the difference right away or does it need investigating? And do you really want to know what my plans are for the day, or would you rather work in silence?

Teachers - do you get annoyed when parents write in homework diaries that a specific piece of homework was too tricky for their child? Do you take it as an insult to your teaching skills?

Waiter/waitresses - do you expect people to offer to clean up their children's mess before they leave, or do you just shrug it off as part of the job? If you're busy and haven't had chance to clean a table yet, and a new customer came up and asked for a cloth to clean it, would you be offended?

I'm a trainee SLT so not quite sure if I'm qualified to answer any questions regarding that line of work yet.

But i have experience working in a Subway sandwich store, a library, a gym and as a cleaner. So i can answer any cleaning, book or sandwich questions that are burning away inside you all. Smile

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TunipTheUnconquerable · 08/10/2013 17:07

Doctors - how much do you hate it if we already know what's wrong with us from Dr Google? Does it annoy you even if you agree with the diagnosis?

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MardyBra · 08/10/2013 17:10

I have a question to ask MNHQ staff. Do you ever wish we'd all shut for for a couple of hours? And do you ever have the urge to bang all of our heads together?

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KatoPotato · 08/10/2013 17:11

ElephantsAndMiasmas I love playing that game! Esp fun if they have lots of rich treats then a bottle of gaviscon.

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MardyBra · 08/10/2013 17:11

Celebrities. How would you like us to react when someone recognises you? Friendly greeting, nonchalant/pretend we haven't seen you, or gush all over you?

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unfortunatedischarge · 08/10/2013 17:12

Waitresses, my children seem to get through 700 wipes per meal. Is it ok if I pile them on my plate or should I continue to guiltily put them in a nappy bag and take them home?

didn't waitress but did bus tables, it all goes straight to the bin so whether it has one napkin or 500 is all the same. Just dont leave it all over

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PeterParkerSays · 08/10/2013 17:12

My sister (yes, the one learning the guitar) manages a mortuary. No, they are never worried about people waking up "on the slab" and she has great praise for undertakers inthe North West who treat the bodies they collect with great respect.

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unfortunatedischarge · 08/10/2013 17:12

*all over different plates. because then you can't stack

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DrawingLines · 08/10/2013 17:14

Elephants in response to your tabloid journalist question, if a journalist is writing an article on which the paper has a strong 'opinion' then the journalist will be reminded of that before writing the article. Usually newspapers don't have time for substantial rewrites so either the journalist writes it with the appropriate viewpoint first time, or the article will be spiked (ie dropped and not published).

[Disclaimer - I'm not a tabloid journalist but have worked on women's mags, newspapers and know people at the Daily Mail and other tabloids]

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TunipTheUnconquerable · 08/10/2013 17:14

Pinocchios, I'm glad you like cleaning messy houses. My cleaner told me she likes coming to mine because she can always see she's made a difference, but I assumed she was just being polite Blush

Hairdressers - how do you feel about customers whose last cut was by their husband rather than a professional and is a bit of a mess? Should we give you an extra big tip because it was bad to start with or doesn't it make any difference?

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MardyBra · 08/10/2013 17:15

Undertakers Do you think working with the dead affects the way you live your life? For example, do you think that you might be dead tomorrow, so live for today iyswim?

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TunipTheUnconquerable · 08/10/2013 17:16

Writers - how do you feel about 4 star reviews?

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ElephantsAndMiasmas · 08/10/2013 17:17

:o Gaviscon.

Yes, pile whatever you like on the plate, it's all about to be chucked in the bin anyway.

I've got some meeeeeja and politics experience if anyone has a question on those.

Would also love to know celebrity answer. I tend to ignore them, unless I end up staring at them wondering if I know them, as I did with a poor chap recently. Only after the staring had continued for some agonising seconds did I think "oh, shit! why is MORIARTY at the train station?" before recovering my senses.

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HumptyDumptyBumpty · 08/10/2013 17:18

DorrisM you do house viewings? Does everyone do the embarassed English non-committal 'mmm, I see, that's great' thing that I always resort to?

I work for a charity, but not one of those chugging on the street ones - we're a membership, academic charity. . I do events management as part of the role.

Oh, meant to say - used to work on a checkout, only judged the one woman who used her milk vouchers in one transaction, then bought shedloads of cheap lager in another. I was a bit Hmm, till a colleague pointed out that she probably needed it to get through the day, and said 'you cope any way you can'. Other than that, I loved customers with kids (am madly broody, even at 27 weeks with my first!) and would happily try to distract from tantrums. I still do in shops, even just as a customer. I don't judge, not for a second. Tantrums are normal, and if one time in ten I can help stop it, it makes me feel good all day.

Also, used to be a waitress, and any clearing up was always gratefully received. The wipes question: pile 'em on the plate. As long as I could pick up the plate and dump on tray without having to pick the wipes up individually, it all gets scraped into a bin, no worries. I've seen much grimmer things than toddler wipes the old lady who hacked up phlegm all over her leftovers AND didn't tip, for example.

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AndThatsWhatIThinkOfYou · 08/10/2013 17:19

haha it's always best to own up to cutting your hair yourself, we always know and it's quite funny asking some one if they have had a go at it themselves and they profusely deny it Grin Grin

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TunipTheUnconquerable · 08/10/2013 17:21

Smile AndThatsWhatIThinkOfYou

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MardyBra · 08/10/2013 17:21

Hairdressers. Can you spot the MN haircut? Grin

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GwendolineMaryLacey · 08/10/2013 17:24

Hairdressers. My mum started going to a rival (at the same place) years ago and still gets me to ring up and make an appointment when the original woman isn't there in case she sees her and gets offended. It's been about 12 years now! Will hairdresser A give a toss? :o

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DameFanny · 08/10/2013 17:26

Excellent thread!

I've mostly worked in IT for the last 20 years so don't imagine that's of much interest no I can't fix your PC

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Twiddlebum · 08/10/2013 17:26

I'm a biomedical scientist.... Any blood test related questions???

I can't believe I've read all the way through and no one has asked "why do they take so many tubes of blood, why can't you use one?"!!! (I get that a lot!!)

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GwendolineMaryLacey · 08/10/2013 17:27

Well yes, now you mention it... Isn't one pot enough?

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volestair · 08/10/2013 17:31

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eurochick · 08/10/2013 17:31

I've often wondered about the gynae one. I knew a lot of med students at university and the thought of them making the decision to specialise in fanoirs for any kind of mature reason was beyond me. I had to have a laproscopy while I was at uni (but not in my uni town, thankfully) and was vehement about not consenting to med students being present, having met too many of them and seen what they were like!

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Twiddlebum · 08/10/2013 17:34

Different blood tubes have different chemicals etc in (anticoagulants etc) which different ones are needed for different tests. We also need to take the amount we do as most of the tubes get spun to separate the components and only about 1/4 of it is usable! Smile

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AndThatsWhatIThinkOfYou · 08/10/2013 17:37

is the mn hair cut basically putting a really high pony tail in and just snipping it of? Shock

and most of us hairdresser realise some people may prefer the way another hairdresser cuts it and it's personal preference, although some can be quite territorial about their clients, after 12 years I think if the other hairdresser was peed of she will have got over it by now Smile

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TheresaMcQueen · 08/10/2013 17:38

I have a blood related question twiddle. What happens to all the blood after its been tested? I mean, how do you get rid of it?!

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