I have twin girls who are 2yrs 8 months and ds who is 6 and I am fed up. I really beleived by now things would have got easier. Just when i get on top of food, sleep etc I am now battling potty training (only one dd) who keeps pooing in her pants I worked really hard to PT her and for two weeks it was going well and I finally thought I had got something right for a change and now it is going wrong and I still have the second daughter to start. I never give any of the kids one to one time so the all play up for attention. Despite being lucky enough to get away for a couple of weeks over the school holidays, it was not really holiday and we had all the tantrums, PT and lack of any time off same as at home. DH is really good at taking over at the weekend but then he ends up stressed and then we fight so I worry our marriage will never survive. I had to give up my job as could not earn enough to pay for two in childcare plus after school care. We have family near by but they will only look after ds as they see him as the one who misses out so does not really give me and dh a break.
I know I should not moan as all the kids are healthy but I see my friends around me who's lives are getting easier and they are starting to be able to enjoy holidays, days out etc and I want to scream!!!!
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katedan · 26/08/2009 08:49
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