I don't know if this is a MIL problem or a multicultural problem but I'm hoping someone here may have some advice...
MIL spoke to her eldest in language A (and to some extent some other languages) until he was 3 and they realised his English was very poor so switched to English only. This means that DP (DC2) learnt none of this language and neither of us speak it beyond the very very basics.
Now, MIL can be lovely but she's being very overbearing with the baby so far and now she keeps talking to the baby in language A. Before the baby was born, we all agreed that the baby would learn this language from MIL but now I'm apprehensive (?) as I haven't got a clue what she's saying or how she's saying it (I'm not sure on the intonation). For all I know she could be saying I'm a right cow (as I said, she can be lovely but we can clash).
So all that to ask, how do I get over this? I'm 90% sure she's not calling me a cow but I seem to have an in built reflex to know what people are saying to my baby!
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BabyOrSanta · 28/12/2017 18:31
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