So many people have asked what our plans are but MD as a solo parent sucks. I’ve had lots if cuddles and know I’m lucky that way. But I’m struggling to shift the sad feeling in the pit of my stomach.
Not sure if it’s the lack of excitement with no flowers or nice lunch or not having my own mum this year. I suspect mainly the latter as I’d have lunch out with her which masked hiding away from happy families.
I know I sound gloomy but hate feeling like this. Does it get easier? I’m normally a get on with it person but just can’t shake it
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Making Mother’s Day bearable
BoyMamma2 · 10/03/2024 10:24
Littlemissmagnet · 10/03/2024 10:31
What age are your children? U are so lucky to have them. Their arms around you are priceless. ❤️ Happy mothers Day! Buy yourself some flowers 💐 if your children are too young.
TuliLily · 10/03/2024 10:50
Nope I feel exactly the same. It’s my worst nightmare to go out to lunch or dinner on Mother’s Day surrounded by families, and people that say you are still a family when you are a single parent sorry no it’s not the same at all! I would feel awful in a restaurant surrounded by families. It’s also my son’s birthday today and he has said many times it’s not Mother’s Day and we won’t be celebrating it because it’s his birthday so I’ve received no acknowledgment at all which is fine as I’m use to everyone coming before me. Yes Mother’s Day as a lone parent is complete rubbish!
BoyMamma2 · 10/03/2024 11:06
5&8. Both boys. Too little to buy anything and passed nursery stage so no cute hand made stuff.
Littlemissmagnet · 10/03/2024 10:31
What age are your children? U are so lucky to have them. Their arms around you are priceless. ❤️ Happy mothers Day! Buy yourself some flowers 💐 if your children are too young.
AnnieLane · 10/03/2024 12:28
If this is important to you, plan ahead next year so that you support your DC’s.
Can your DC’s ‘earn’ some money at home towards something for you?
Take them shopping but let them go into the shop themselves ( we have small independents where I can wait outside), or let them choose something off the supermarket shelf.
Pretend to not ‘see’ what they have chosen.
Provide them with a bag to hide the gift in, or let them bury something ‘unseen’ in the trolley.
Suggest some food at home. Can they make you your ‘favourite’ sandwich.
Plan/suggest some nice things to do together. A walk, ‘coffee and cake’ out, a board game, a film.
Make some traditions.
My DC’s are older now, only one local. On MD in COVID times, my DS and I met for a walk. Just the two of us. Every year we now have a ‘mother and son’ date. Just us. Time to chat, time to connect. We both love it.
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