Apparently he sat her down and asked her to make his partner a mothers day card. DD said she wanted to make me one too and he said no. I find this so upsetting because 1) it puts DD in a very confusing and conflicting situation (she said she felt bad but I reassured her that she had done absolutely nothing wrong) and 2) it stung as I have noone to help my daughter make a card or get a present etc, surely he could have let her make me one too?
Also the card apparently said to mummy, not thanks for being a great step mum or something.
I'm glad she has a good relationship with his new partner but surely this is just inappropriate? I should mention this won't have come from a good place either, he's a very nasty man and most likely knew it would get back to me and was designed to hurt.
I'm not sure whether to say anything as that is likely what he wants, but I'm so annoyed that my daughter was put in this situation. It feels very manipulative (different situation entirely if she had suggested doing it herself)
Any advice? :(
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Ex husband made daughter make his partner a mothers day card but refused to let her make me one.
DecemberRose19 · 04/03/2024 07:36
Chocolateorange11 · 04/03/2024 07:40
Your ex is a dick. Leave him to it because you cannot possibly reason with that level of stupid…
Your response was great. I know now quite the same, but you can make the card with her. I bet she would really enjoy it! And then as she gets older she will be able to make it herself.
NigelHarmansNewWife · 04/03/2024 07:38
I think you are right - how old is your daughter? Is your ex making her call his partner mummy and has she said anything about this element of things herself?
Copperoliverbear · 05/03/2024 22:27
Tell you husband outright, you partner is not my daughter mother I am, don't get her to make her cards and not me you narcissistic cunt and If you carry on with your shit, I will move miles away and you will have to fight me in court for access, just remember you prick I am the one who holds all the cards not you.
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