Just looking for some advice really ... ex partner was very violent /abusive during my pregnancy, threatened to kick me in the stomach, and constantly put me and baby in danger while I was pregnant, I left him just after I gave birth and reported to the police, he continued to stalk and harass me, he's been charged with assault against me. He has also put our child in danger multiple times and hurt me whiles I've been holding him or had him in the pram. I have a restraining order and have been diagnosed with PTSD, he has never paid any money towards our son. I had to move areas completely and change all my contact details for our safety. He is now nearly 18 months and my ex has applied to the court for access to our son, I believe this is another way to get to me instead of him actually caring about our son. I'm absolutely terrified of him getting access as I believe he's dangerous and my son isn't safe with him however I know he will get some kind of contact - does anyone have any advice or have ever been in a similar situation and could tell me how it went for you and what kind of contact was given? I'm worried sick and off work with the stress 
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