Hi all
So I'm new and really need some Reassurance or advice basically tell me what you think.
I've had my 3 yro son living with me full time for the last 2 months, he's been placed with me due to social services being unhappy with certain things my ex has done etc (don't want to divulge details but it hasn't been great) currently going through all the shaninigans of getting full custody and allowing her access and contact as often as she would like as long as it's supervised until things change (he's pretty much been living with me for the last 10 months)
Now basically I've had a new partner for the last 4/5 months and things are fantastic I've known her 8 years and we've basically decided to move out of the friend zone (me and ex been split now over 2 years) things have obviously progressed and it's not fling or relationship that's going to be over in the next 2 or 3 years we are in it for the long haul, before our relationship began DS had met her as a friend of daddies etc, and has met her since.
Now this is the part I'm worried about my ex over the last 12 months has had 7-10 different fellas all of which DS has met while they slept over, now I really would like my partner to stay with me for a weekend, my DS has asked when she has been over in the evenings if she could stay and he could see her in the morning but due to what's happened with mum I haven't wanted to risk him (even at 3) thinking bad of daddy, so have been saying no, (my partners been amazing and understanding being a mum herself has gone with my decisions) having DS 7 days a week I'm going to ask my partner to stay next weekend, but just looking for an outsiders view on do you think I'm wrong? Should I wait longer? Or should I stop worrying as DS likes her and is happy for her to stay?
Thanks in advance for your advice and sorry for the long winded message, waffle a lot when nervous 🙈
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Luckydaddy85 · 20/04/2018 01:00
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