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really down today, dont know why

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pirategirl · 01/04/2007 21:11

Was just thinking yesterday that I seemed so much better about my ex and i breaking up.
Not so upset, bla bla, stronger.

Then this afternoon, I just plummeted, got really angry with DD4, going on a nd on, she wasnt even being naughty, just 'filling my brain', and I burst in to tears.

Just felt so angry with him for leaving us, felt like , 'thanks', we live a half life without you, I am just so tired all the time.

We get out as much as poss, I give my all to my dd, but today I feel very low indeed.

just feels so lonely.

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pirategirl · 09/04/2007 22:47

i think she was worn out by all the attention, she hates fuss!

Hope we can chill out 2morrow together, yet she is always onthe go even when ill!

good luck with your lesson 2morro pelvic, btw, iam with you on the pelvicfloornomore stance.

orrible birth exp!! and spd thrown in too.

fab!

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Beauregard · 09/04/2007 22:43

Sorry to hear that.
Hope she is ok ?
There is so many viruses at the moment,you find yourself waiting for the dc to catch the next thing.

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pirategirl · 09/04/2007 22:41

dd came back ill bless her, we managed a nice lunch in the pub ( again) with the outlaws.

She had a fever, and has a runny nose, hoarse voice, there's still so much going round.

Glad to have her back tho.

x

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Beauregard · 09/04/2007 22:15

Hiya
Maybe it is cos it's a bank holiday?
If you don't receive it tommorrow i will cat again.
I'm bricking it for my lesson in the morning
Did you have a nice day with your dd?

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pirategirl · 09/04/2007 21:06

hi just to say, i havent recieved the cat message.

hope you are ok.

pirate

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pirategirl · 09/04/2007 00:41

hoovering i mean--ie carpets lol!

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pirategirl · 09/04/2007 00:41

ok, take care, i must go too, have serious hovering issues to attend to in the morning, plus have to find a hidey place for the stack of ironing, i just could not be arsed to do this weekend!!!
x

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Beauregard · 09/04/2007 00:37

dd2 birthday is 15/01/06(hope that is capricorn?)
It may be what you need ,having a break from the lessons for a week or two.If you are having a rough time of it the last thing you need really is the additional stress.
Yikes yes lesson 3

Must go to bed now ,dont want to but the prospect of the dd's in the morning is not one to face with a few hours sleep.I swear to god they are like Tazmanian devilseither that or the air round here is full of e number's lol!

Hope you have a nice day tommorrow
Will probably speak to you tommorrow night.
xxxx

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pirategirl · 09/04/2007 00:26

I have another on the 25th, only becuase my girl is of school and i have two friends who could help out to look after her but both are away over easter.

I might try and see if another freind can have her the week after this one. my dad lives down here, but works so not poss.

I am happy to be having a break from driving this week, with the theory it was getting to be a little too much.

What date is dd2 b day.

My friend from last nite is a scorpio! sorry not trying to sound like a weird new friend or something lol, just interested.

So you have your third lesson, thats brill!!

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Beauregard · 09/04/2007 00:21

dd2 is a capricorn and the rest of us are scorpio's so our house is never calm

Yes i'm off tommorrow as well!
We will probably go somewhere just for a walk or a drive.
Have another driving lesson on tuesday[scared]
When is your next one?

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pirategirl · 09/04/2007 00:19

Dont be , the creeks end, or the creeks bottom, as we like to call it, was as grubby as ever!! Yet its the only place to sit on the quay.
I'm a capricorn, we love doom and gloom!!!

Nah, we are just serious, and forever finding solutions, or thinking too much.

Do you work 2morro, or do you have a day of rest.

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Beauregard · 09/04/2007 00:14

at your stroll for lunch.

Are you a scorpio then?

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pirategirl · 09/04/2007 00:08

yes me too, i never get used to how different i feel when the spring comes.

its been lovely here today, bit cold wind but really sunny.
had an unexpected lunch at the Creeks by the estuary, my friend who i went out with last nite stayed here and we ambled down the hill for some nosh.

I think my starsign type finds winter hard, i'm interested in that sort of stuff, a bit of hippy at heart!

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Beauregard · 09/04/2007 00:05

Hope you have lots of fun with your dd this week,it must be so difficult for you to cope with your ex etc.
I love the spring too,i find the winter makes me more depressed.

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pirategirl · 08/04/2007 23:59

I havent seen them since last july, the language thing is always a bit difficult, but we get by. Lots of pointing, dramatics on my part!

I felt a bit left out this weekend, knowing they were all over his house with his new partner. Its hard to get used to, i have known them so long.

I am looking forward to the easter hols, our only broke uo thurs, so hopefully some decnet weather, and me and little one can get out of the house.

I love the spring, hate the winter!!!

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Beauregard · 08/04/2007 23:55

Easter was good thanks.
It is the 1st one i haven't worked in years.
We took the dd's to the park this morning then we had my parent's round for dinner,followed by much binge eating by me
I live in Worcestershire,about 18 miles from Birmingham.
Aw I bet you will have a nice day then tommorrow.

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pirategirl · 08/04/2007 23:49

so how was your eater? where abouts are you in the country? I had a quiet day, was nice but cant wait to see my girl in the morning, my inlaws are over from europe, and are spending the day with me and her 2morro.

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Beauregard · 08/04/2007 23:45


I was confused cos it usually means 4th dear daughter.

I get it now,lol.
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pirategirl · 08/04/2007 23:43

pelvic

dd means 'dear daughter', so I have one dear daughter who is 4 years old PMSL.

So, in short I have an only child!! I wanted another but as you know from my posts hubby left us.

so now am looking for potential sperm donor!

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Beauregard · 08/04/2007 23:35

Aha so 3 ds?
Wow

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pirategirl · 08/04/2007 23:33

pelvic, you misunderstood, I have just the one dd who is four yrs old!!

I will wait for the cat.

msn messenger is quite easy to instal and use, ie i did it, ie my mother did it-- and that is a miracle lol!

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Beauregard · 08/04/2007 23:29

lol i like the treasure hunt idea but i'm sure if you just reply to my cat when it arrives then i shall know your email addy.
Wow 4 dd's

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pirategirl · 08/04/2007 23:26

I have dd4 who is 5 in two weeks. Do you have msn?

I wonder if I could hide my email in two or threee posts haphazzardly placed around mn?
Like a treasure hunt!!!

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Beauregard · 08/04/2007 23:17

No need you should just be able to email me back.
My dd's are 5(going on 16) and 15months .
Do you have just dd's or ds as well?

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pirategirl · 08/04/2007 23:13

Oh then I must return the favour and get my purse out. Will I have to do that in order to be able to recive the message? Or will it come to my email addy?

Having a mare atm, with an item i got off ebay that doesnt work.
I might start a thread about it.

God i have really missed my dd this weekend.
How old are your children?

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