How did you feel when your x got married?

[fairyfly]

I need to work out what it is i'm feeling, can someone who has been there explain so i can work it out.

I'm not unhappy, just odd.

[fairyfly]

Yes they had a spit roast on their wedding day, in a marquee.

[fuzzywuzzy]

the pig roast??? As in a whole pig on a spit roasting???? really????

[fairyfly]

I felt fine until the the kids came home, they haven't shut up about it. They've told me about the castle, the pig roast, the beautiful dress, the amazing drums, the amazing guitar band, the amazing guests, how happy they are.........

Please can i gag them just for one night.

[nightowl]

its been two minutes and no thread has appeared. why are you rejecting me?

sorry ff, everyone please resume this thread . hope you're feeling better.

[singledadofthree]

arghhh....ok then

[nightowl]

yeah yeah...and if you dont right...im gonna cling to your leg and beg you not to leave me. because i am psychotic.

[singledadofthree]

what like - 'why is that ....(you never did say your name) such a psycho?' - that kind of thing?

[nightowl]

well...since youre a man maybe you could advise me on why im apparently psychotic? hang on, start a chat thread...i hate hyjacking other people's threads. go on...with a really exciting thread name...

[singledadofthree]

like that was it? and i thought you had found yourself a fella too - read it somewhere - so how goes it? at the risk of getting a slug in the post of course

[nightowl]

hmphhhh not this week. last saturday i swore id never drink again...he he

[singledadofthree]

ah nightowl - so youre surviving still i see and still have your wicked sense of humour. all is well here - so why you up so late? been out on the town?

[nightowl]

hey singledad, how the devil are you? long time no see.

[singledadofthree]

mine has yet to re marry - guess she hasnt got over me yet

[nightowl]

i was peed off when my ex got married.

1. because if he had married his first serious gf after me i would have been invited, we were good friends! (i missed a party, what can i say?)
   
   
2. because his wife to be was a silly childish slapper and i cant stand her.
   
   
3. because i was told he spent all night carrying around HER child and ignored ours.
   
   and 4....
   
   when ds came back in his clothes he looked beautiful and for one fleeting moment i felt sorry it wasnt me...for ds really..even though i just dont feel that way about his dad anymore.
   
   
   but its ok. they're divorced now

[ninah]

gf I'll drink to that!

[expatinscotland]

your ex sounds like a prize wank stain, tho, ff. i'd sent the kids in shorts made from cut off jeans and holey tshirts.

[fairyfly]

Is he difinityl getting married then gf?

Rebound????????

[Carmenere]

I like your style fairyfly

[fairyfly]

I texted back get your own wedding clothes and given the boys laxatives, that will do.

[Carmenere]

He's paying for them I presume, or do you dress your kids in shirts and ties as a matter of course? He's a muppet! Of course the temptation is to go and get bright orange shirts (or some other suitably hideous colour) but that would be unfair to the kids.

Rise above it - smile, text back that you have thought of that already and taht he owes you for them.

[SleepyJess]

Relief as well. I was standing outside the church, heavily pregnant and getting piss wet through waiting to take pics of the happy couple and of DS who was the ring bearer and thinking "I hope he's happy in this marriage".

But then he wasn't a complete b*stard to me or anything.. we were just too young and stupid to have got married in the first place.

[fairyfly]

Just proves what a second thought they are.