Bit of a long complicated back story which is actually too boring to go into. My dilema is this - 7yr old DD & I have been invited to spend xmas eve at my ex's house, to wake up xmas morning there, DD opens santa's gifts and then he heads off to his fiance's family and me & DD head home to have our dinner. I umm'd and ahh'd, then asked DD what she would like to do - she wants to stay at her dad's on xmas eve.
I'm sure it will go OK, we get on fine enough as long as I ignore much of his twattish behaviour and DD would like to do this. Previous years have varied from him staying at ours on xmas eve 1st year we split, to then me & DD being at my parents xmas eve, xmas day and DD going to ex's on xmas night or boxing day depending on his plans. I did suggest he could come here but he doesn't want to do that.
So, what have I let myself in for? What have I not thought of, or missed that will make me slap my forehead while I channel Homer Simpson...
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bananaistheanswer · 10/10/2012 23:44
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