Hi,
Ill try to keep this short :<br />
i was in an abusive relationship, and ended up falling pregnant. the abuse/violence got worse so i reported it all to the police.
went through the courts and got orders against him, he ended up in prison for a few months over it all. since then i have had no contact with him AT ALL due to the violence etc, i had the baby without him, he had no part what so ever. (not even on birth certificate)
I have since found out he has had a baby with someone else.(doesnt bother me but i think it has prompted this..)
i recently received a letter from a solicitors requesting he have regular contact with my child. This is a huge shock to me as I havent even told him i had a child etc.
I do not want him anywhere near me or my child as the violence in the past has left me in fear of him and his possible actions.
He will always be a threat to me and more importantly my child who is nearly 2.
How easy is it for him to get contact sorted through the courts? will they allow him to even with his criminal past? (he has been in prison a few times, and had restraining orders against him etc).
I feel that due to him not having an emotional bond with my child, he is capable of anything!!
any advice would be brilliant thanks!
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Rosa1988 · 15/07/2011 15:43
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