Hi
I’m looking for advice.. we are a family of 5, kids 8,6,3. We are Australian citizens as we lived in Perth from 2011-2018, and we loved the life there.
we moved home shortly after my second child was born as I struggled breastfeeding and looking after a toddler with no support, we came home and I didn’t have support here either but I managed. I have no strong family links here. My husband family help with kids sometimes but unfortunately we never formed strong relationships over the years. We moved home to Ireland 5 years now and built a lovely big home, with a good bit of the mortgage paid. We live in rural Ireland here on my husband’s farm. I’ve always longed for Perth and thought it would be great for the kids to grow up there. So we both got jobs back in Perth and we were set to move but I panicked last minute with fear . We couldn’t get a rental and therefore we couldn’t get into a good public primary school in Perth . So now I’m regretting my decision, but when I was packing to go last week I was in fear of going. I couldn’t make my mind up. I was afraid of going and having a mortgage of $1 mill and the cost of private secondary school x3. In Ireland I can pay my mortgage off in 3 years time and my kids have excellent free education, we are just not having the outdoor lifestyle of Perth in Ireland. Overall if we lived in Perth we’d have a mortgage of $900k (with repayment that would be $1.8g) plus school fees of $160 k. Is this a crazy decision to move there considering the costs , is the price tag to high for sun sand and sea and beautiful outdoor life.
I only want to live in certain suburbs as I know the city well , so the possibility of moving very north or south for lower house prices is not an option. Any advice would be appreciated. Am I about to regret by his for the rest of my life , or is the grass green where you water it?? I just hate that my children stay indoor here for much of the year, even though we are active and attend many groups after school. My heart is in two places, if Perth wasn’t so competitive with school zones this wouldn’t be an issue.
any advice will be welcomed.
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superstrongmom · 09/12/2023 09:36
superstrongmom · 09/12/2023 09:36
Hi
I’m looking for advice.. we are a family of 5, kids 8,6,3. We are Australian citizens as we lived in Perth from 2011-2018, and we loved the life there.
we moved home shortly after my second child was born as I struggled breastfeeding and looking after a toddler with no support, we came home and I didn’t have support here either but I managed. I have no strong family links here. My husband family help with kids sometimes but unfortunately we never formed strong relationships over the years. We moved home to Ireland 5 years now and built a lovely big home, with a good bit of the mortgage paid. We live in rural Ireland here on my husband’s farm. I’ve always longed for Perth and thought it would be great for the kids to grow up there. So we both got jobs back in Perth and we were set to move but I panicked last minute with fear . We couldn’t get a rental and therefore we couldn’t get into a good public primary school in Perth . So now I’m regretting my decision, but when I was packing to go last week I was in fear of going. I couldn’t make my mind up. I was afraid of going and having a mortgage of $1 mill and the cost of private secondary school x3. In Ireland I can pay my mortgage off in 3 years time and my kids have excellent free education, we are just not having the outdoor lifestyle of Perth in Ireland. Overall if we lived in Perth we’d have a mortgage of $900k (with repayment that would be $1.8g) plus school fees of $160 k. Is this a crazy decision to move there considering the costs , is the price tag to high for sun sand and sea and beautiful outdoor life.
I only want to live in certain suburbs as I know the city well , so the possibility of moving very north or south for lower house prices is not an option. Any advice would be appreciated. Am I about to regret by his for the rest of my life , or is the grass green where you water it?? I just hate that my children stay indoor here for much of the year, even though we are active and attend many groups after school. My heart is in two places, if Perth wasn’t so competitive with school zones this wouldn’t be an issue.
any advice will be welcomed.
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