After some thoughts and advice especially what others would do in this scenario.
We are two mums and have two children. Our daughter came out of rainbows upset, she had one Mother’s Day picture and couldn’t understand why she couldn’t have made one for each of us. When she was in nursery she always made two cards. Same with School.
Is it unreasonable to expect a card/picture each? Should settings accommodate this? I’m also interested to hear others experiences of how settings have navigated Father’s Day? TIA x
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Mother’s Day angst
Beebee2016 · 06/03/2024 12:37
Startinganew07 · 17/03/2024 12:34
Agree with those who suggest simply adding two names to one card. It isn’t “heteronormative” — it is just reflective of time and resource constraints.
What would you expect the leaders to do for children who have two fathers? Or
who are being raised by a single father? Or whose mothers have died?
It would be lovely if every possible permutation of family life could be addressed — but perhaps it is up to parents to take the initiative rather than assume that teachers and leaders know how to address every family structure?
In the case of OP: surely you knew mothers’ day was coming? Perhaps next year, think ahead and help organise an appropriate project for your own child.
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