Cheating lying? What do you think?
A pop up came on my computer on my partners emails... a trans/gay dating site.. I thought it was spam it sent me to the site..already logged in. He has an active dating profile with his (or her or them no idea now) profile. He's been logging on every morning while baby and I are asleep next to him.
He's changed his location to our address.. we've just moved..
Is he finding his true identity? Or cheating? I've been ghosted by local mums.. I'm wondering if this is why now, as we are a close knit community and there are other locals on this site.. idiotically his profile pic is obviously him. (I'd be a bit more security minded)
I know he has recently downloaded Snapchat..
Is he proper cheating? How do I bring it up? What do I do?
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miriam2902 · 14/07/2023 14:00
EddieMunsen · 14/07/2023 14:05
Blokey and homophobic - perfect candidate to believe in gender identity.
Most older men who transition are those who've been married, have kids, sometimes butch enough for the army. They are usually AGP.
OP, this is awful for you. I'd say regardless of their identity, they have put a sledgehammer to your marriage.
StillPerplexed · 14/07/2023 14:10
He's cheating, or looking to cheat. That's the important thing, not whether he's bi or whatever. Either way, you need to have a serious conversation with him and consider that this is probably the end of your relationship.
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