Morning.
Yesterday, I received an email inviting me to a "without prejudice conversation" to discuss a "confidential settlement proposal" following the substantial grievance I raised last month against my manager. The issues included racism, bullying, harassment, multiple data breaches, and colluding with colleagues and customers, all supported by evidence.
The meeting is scheduled for tomorrow April 11th, 2024, via Teams. I'm seeking advice, tips, and insights to prepare effectively. As I'm hesitant to attend alone, I’ll be bringing a friend for support since I'm no longer part of a union.
I spoke with ACAS yesterday for guidance and plan to conduct further research. Any experiences, information, or advice would be greatly appreciated.
I also submitted a Subject Access Request as part of my grievance. Last week I received an emailing informing me they are extending the deadline until the 14th June (!) to provide me the SAR due to its “complex” nature. Is this something I should be considering as part of my settlement/negotiation too?
I’m anticipating potential lowball offers but my goal is to reach a fair and suitable agreement, considering the distress this situation has caused. I'm still willing to pursue this matter to the fullest extent if needed, as reflected by the substantial grievance.
Hopefully I’ll be moving on from this living hell sooner rather than later.
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"Without prejudice" conversation and settlement offer following grievance raised against manager
Quirkyme · 10/04/2024 10:44
Rainbowshine · 10/04/2024 11:57
Hi I work in HR. A settlement agreement would probably include the SAR as it basically is a contract between you and the employer saying that you both agree to end the employment contract, and in return for your agreement to certain conditions you will receive an amount of money. The conditions usually include things like non compete clauses and return of company property. It also includes a clause that says you don’t have any outstanding claims against the employer, e.g. you agree to not make any tribunal claims against them and won’t lodge a DSAR or withdrawal of an existing one.
I have been on both sides of this situation and my advice from experience: negotiate a bit but take the money now. Going to tribunal is not an easy option and you’re unlikely to end up richer than if you took the money now. The big payouts you see in headlines are rare, you’re more likely to get a couple of thousand if you’re lucky. You’ll have to show how you mitigated your losses. You will be more stressed going to tribunal. If you genuinely want to just move on, take the money and leave it behind you and try not to hold on to any baggage from this. Focus on the future.
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