Hi, I've just heard today that I've been successful in getting a new job back near my family. Although I love my current job, I have no family nearby except my ex 10miles away. His family all live near him and tbh I find them all very intimidating. There have been a few issues over the last few years and I try to have as little to do with them as possible.
Now, obviously, I have to tell him that we're moving, approx 70 miles away. At the minute he has them 3 nights/fortnight, which will probably have to reduce to 2 nights/fortnight. I'm more than willing for them to stay extra during school holidays, which will make up for this, but I'm dreading telling him tomorrow. He was meant to have them 3 nights last weekend due to Easter hols, but they actually only stayed with him one night, and with his family the other 2. This is always happening, and although he is meant to be seeing them, he's either working or out socialising.
Has anybody else been in this situation? All idea's would be very gratefully received. I know he'll be upset at us leaving.... but he can't stop us, can he???
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homemadecookie · 02/04/2013 23:12
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