1 or 2? Differences and pros/cons

[Sesicilana]

My child is 3 and we are going back and forth and can’t decide if we want second child. I’m scared I will have 0 time for myself but really want sibling for my little one and being pregnant again abc enjoy taking care of little baby plus I would feel complete as I always wanted two. On the other hand toddler years have been crazy and wonder if I can do it with two ... thoughts?!

[Isawthathaggis]

I think you might get a better response if you post this question in ‘chat’?
When I hear the term larger families, I think of people with four or more children, not two.
Because of this most people on this section will probably have passed two long ago, so are likely to agree that a sibling is a benefit.

Course, it depends on the sibling.