So just wanted an opinion from more of a range of People than just my friends ..my husbands birthday is by bonfire night, every year we've had fireworks in his mums for bonfire night but ties in for his birthday.
This last year I was pregnant for my 30th..and it's his 30th soon. So we booked a cottage to go away for the week.
I was going to get a cake made for his birthday to give him on the day-but thought my mums very good at cakes and would be cheaper. His mum openly admits she can't bake so doesn't even attempt. She also knows we're going away for his birthday and are still doing fireworks.
When I asked my mum she's asked for the third time - "does his mum know your going away for his 30th?"..and now "doesn't she want to do a cake for her son?"'.. as if I'm
Wrong for celebrating with him and trying to make it special.. SO my question is - when your married with kids, is your place with your wife and kids(and then still celebrate with everyone else , but just around that) or should yoi follow what your mum and dad still want to do with you and your wife and baby not be a priority really??
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Xmaxsmumx · 04/10/2017 12:15
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