Hi everyone
I was wondering if I can get some advice on what we can do next with IVF. A bit of background...
TTC for 2 years now, now 35 as is partner. During this time, I was diagnosed with endometriosis (no symptoms apart from day 1 of period is heavy. No pain etc so this was a complete shock). I had a large endometrioma on left ovary which I was advised to have removed (especially for IVF). This was removed in May 2023. We qualified for one NHS funded round where we live so we started that in February 2024. Partner has normal SA results so did not have ICSI. During scans, another small endometrioma (around 18mm) was seen on my right ovary. For the IVF meds, I had 300 units of stimulation (Menopur).I responded well to the meds and 8 follicles were seen as growing, with another 2-3 smaller ones which they said might recruit nearer egg collection (it seems my left ovary which had the large endometrioma did take a hit during the op and some follicles were lost). 8 eggs were retrieved, only 4 were mature and of those only 2 fertilised normally... 1 did nor fertilise at all and the other fertilised abnormally. Unfortunately, the 2 which did fertilise both stopped developing at the 5 and 8 cell stage (around day 2-3). We were completely devastated, and the clinic believe it is my egg quality which is the issue. He even mentioned donor eggs as something to consider if it happens again. I was really shocked this was being mentioned so soon into the process. I will look into this if it is required but I feel at this point it's a bit early?
At the follow on consultation, we were told if we were to stay with that clinic (Care Fertility) for another round, they would switch us to a short protocol next time (I had been on long).
However, I'm really torn with what to do next..
- Should we try another round of conventional IVF and just hope for the best (I was supporting egg quality leading up to my first round, but I'm now really putting in the effort with a better diet, no gluten or dairy, limiting sugar etc). Consultant said egg quality can vary month to month so we might have just been unlucky that month. My partner thinks we should just try conventional again. Perhaps switch to a short protocol.
- Should we consider switching to mild/natural modified IVF instead? As this is meant to be focussed on egg quality, and maybe that is best for us since it is my eggs which are the issue. I have seen Create do a 3 round package.
- Is it worth getting a DNA fragmentation test done before we go again? My partner has suspected SIBO and has been on Fluxeotine (Prozac) for over 2 years and I just have a niggling feeling his sperm quality/DNA is impacted? As we had such disastrous results on the first round, is it really only my eggs causing the issue (consultant thinks not to bother with this btw). Partner is coming off this slowly and getting the right treatment for SIBO finally. He is also cleaning up his diet and adding in some supplements.
- Should we go abroad and just forget about IVF in the UK?!
- Has anyone else had a first round like this and went on to have better results?
any help and advice is really appreciated and thank you for reading to the end! I am just completely torn with what to do for the best and can't believe the result we had in this first round :( I just hope that it was a bit of a fluke and we have better luck in the future.
We are getting married in a few months so I think we need to wait for after this to do any further IVF, although I am concerned the second endometrioma will grow bigger and will need looking at before we can proceed further... argh it's honestly so overwhelming and I'm starting to feel like it will never happen for us.
Thanks again