Exactly- his legacy is democracy and the ending of apartheid. There is HOPE, at least for the kids. People can travel freely, there is a black majority government, however flawed.
ANC terrorism was warranted in former times and is not whitewashed away. It is extensively covered at the apartheid museum in Johannesburg and is included in the school curriculum.
Africa is hugely diverse and rapidly, rapidly developing at breathtaking speed. For example, Angola has more Portuguese economic refugees than vice versa, Botswana is stable, peaceful and thriving. Mozambique is on the up. The potential here is huge.