Maybe if any good can come from a thread like this, it is the reminder that yet again, in a horrific, unimaginable crime against a little child, and god, the evidence heard today is grim, the accused prime suspect is someone that she and the family knew.
I believe the majority of people are still far too hung up on the prospect of random strangers abducting their child and are not vigilant enough when it comes to people they know, or sort of know, or know of, or have met through a friend.
Child internet porn and abuse is rife through ALL walks of life, GPs, teachers, clergy, policemen, babysitters, other parents on the playground at hometime - you can never be too careful about who you allow your child to know. I am not saying there were any warning signs in this case at all, just that we all need to be so so careful. The law of averages says we probably ALL know someone who is not what they seem. Its not rude to question people, to be vigilant, to monitor their behaviour, to say no to their friendly gestures, to report ANY suspicions when something does not seem right or makes you uncomfortable.
At the same time, when we see heartbreaking stories like this or the death of the Indian girl who was raped, we need to remember that there are far more decent people than bad in the world.