HI everyone
I have been quiet for a few days, I know, but it has been an extremely productive quiet . Well done everyone for whatever they have done, big or small this past week.
twonker at my worst my lists have been similar to:
Sort dirty washing into piles
Sort dirty washing into piles
Put load of washing on
Sort dirty washing into piles
Put load of washing on
Put washing into dryer
Stack dirty dishes neatly, scrap food into bin
Sort dirty washing into piles
Put load of washing on
Put washing into dryer
Stack dirty dishes neatly, scrap food into bin
Do one load of washing up
And so on. By the end of the day, or however long I work at it for, I get a fair amount done. And on my very worst days, it has even included getting showered, doing my teeth, eating a meal. Because they are all accomplishments.
All:
Another tactic I have used, when a room is really getting too much for me, is to put a timer on for 10 or 15 minutes, and I go into the room and work until the timer goes off. Then I go for a cuppa, or 10 minutes (timed) on the computer, or whatever. And repeat it several times over. When you get to the end of your first 15 minutes, you notice what you have done and realise it isnt as bad as you thought.
Or if watching the tv, when the ads come on, see what you can do before the ads finish. You only have a couple of minutes, but it can be surprising what you can do in those minutes.
If sorting a room out, dont just move everything into another room - it really doesnt solve the problem, cos then you just end up not coping with that room at all, keep shoving stuff in it to be sorted, and it becomes a black hole that is constantly nagging at you, and really does drive your mental state down, cos it is there and needs sorting, but you cant face sorting it. I suggest going round with a number of boxes or bags. One for stuff to be binned. One for stuff to be sold/given to charity shop/whatever (too good to bin, but not keeping) - make sure this gets disposed of ASAP, or if keeping to do a carboot, have an area you can stack the boxes when they are full. Also have a box per bedroom, and one for other rooms. Start in one corner, set a timer, and work solidly putting items in the relevant box. When the timer is up, go and put the stuff in all but the bin and to go boxes away. Have a break. Then go back to it (or repeat the next day, whatever works). It breaks it into managable chunks, and you are actually dealing with the mess/clutter, not shifting it from one space to another.
Nigglenaggle Why not take one box into another room and just sort that one box? A box a day, or 10 minutes sorting out clothes on an armchair, will work through it quicker than you may think
Jing Congrats on the move . Enjoy your two weeks over here, hope the weather is reasonable.
Slattern, Bea, and everyone else I think I've kinda given my take on everything mentioned above, but didnt want to miss you out
Yes, everything I have said is from long experience and much learning about what works, FOR ME! They may not help, but I hope they do
Just remember, do jobs an inch at a time, cos an inch is achievable, a mile is impossible.