I have a 9 y.o with ASD who was really struggling and it was a no brainer really to take him out and he was thriving since. We also have a 7 y.o who we decided to take out this school year in sept and everything has gone downhill since. Sibling rivalry is a constant but it's one step further with 9y.o being autistic and needing space ect and now he doesn't get a minute because his brother is always there. 9yo is quite reserved and likes to chill whereas 7yo is full of energy and tbh can be quite overbearing sensory wise for anyone. Everyday is a battle and I miss it when it was just my eldest at home, we would go out all the time and he was happy, it's hard for me to take them both out alone as 9yo will often run away when overwhelmed and 7yo ALWAYS triggers him. I was hoping the experience would bring them closer but it's not happened. Have tried endless times to explain autism to youngest but nothing seems to go through.
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DysmalRadius · 25/01/2024 23:32
It's still early days but you clearly haven't found your groove yet and there's no shame in considering alternatives. Is there a physical activity/class that you youngest could do and your oldest could read while they're occupied for example? We have a cooperative that has plenty for all my kids - there's a quiet room, outdoor space, kitchen etc Do you know if there's anything like that near you? You don't have to do it all yourself all the time so maybe you just need to find the right combination of activities to meet everyone's needs. Good luck - it sounds tough but I'm sure you'll make the right choice.
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