Hello Everyone,
I would like to take my daughter (8 years old) out of school after this summer, and to home school her. I would like to know, what do I have to do? Do I email my local authority, or do I email or call the head teacher? What do I have to do? Should I go and see him in person? I also have a bit of an unusual situation which I want to tell you about so that you have some background information, as I don't know if it will have any effect on the authority allowing me to home school my child. Thats another important question, do they have to allow me to home school my child or is the power more in my hands?
I have one one child. Somehow, she has many of my characters, I wish she didn't. I went to normal school, and I was miserable. I even went to university and did a degree and masters, but it was all because everyone else was doing it. I personally didn't get bullied at school because I knew how to defend myself and could stand up for myself (even though I wasn't big), and I always had a reasonable amount of friends. But I hated school and I was miserable there. The reality was I hardly ever went to school. I was walking the streets from age of 13-16. I had a system in place on how not to attend, and to make it seem that I was attending. Its shocking that I got through school and A-Levels and Degree. I don't want my daughter to go down my road.
Fast forward 20-30 years, my daughter on the whole hates school, has hardly any friends at school, walks in the playground everyday by herself etc. We have tried many things. She is normal in every way, apart from the fact that she is a loner with quite a strong personality like me and she learns differently. She is a bit creative like me and enjoys that sort of stuff. But at the same time she is top of her class in English and Maths etc.
I am someone who needs constant stimulation, and I understood myself and my characteristics very late in life. It would have saved me a lot of heartache and lost years if I had some guidance and if I could focus my energies towards positive things. For me it started at the age of 30, when I became self employed, where I was able to enjoy myself and excel. However, again I wasn't just doing to make money, it was about being independent and enjoying myself. Along the way if money came along great. So I never ever sought to grow in normal business ways. Although I always made some money.
This brings me to my current situation. Ever since I was a teenager, and now I am 40 plus, I have loved the travelling life. Although I have the balls and chains like most people, house, mortgage, bills, business etc, I never liked it. I have always done it because I felt it was the norm and its what I needed to do to provide for myself and my family. I am planning on travelling around the either temporarily or semi-permantly (we'll see how it goes), in about 6-9 months, so we'll live in a country for as long as we can e.g 6 months, and then move to another country etc. If anyone has heard of the term "working nomads" or "digital nomads" you'll understand exactly what I am doing. As long as we have an income and we can give our daughter good education and a well rounded start in life, then I am happy. I am hippy at heart with a touch of capitalist. I have worked out my finances, and we should be okay. I have put a backup system in place in case my income drops or does not work out. We don't live an extraMe and my wife plan to home school her most likely loosely around UK curriculum, and we will employ professionals as and when we need.
Now, what I want to know, the fact that I plan not be in the UK, does it have any bearing on my daughters home schooling application and the chances of it being rejected? My wife is a teacher, part time. She was never full time. However, she is a specialist teacher, and doesn't know about this kind of stuff. Should I tell the headteacher my plans, or do you see it having a negative effect on my approval?
I have told my doctor about a year ago about my plans as I have known him many years - just as a doctor. Many people who know me that this has been a lifelong ambition of mine.
So I essentially want to know how do I get the ball rolling to register her for home schooling? And do I need to tell them about my plans and will it have any effect?
I would also welcome any general advice about home schooling etc.
Lastly, very sorry this is a long winded post. Thanks guys.
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