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Help - university have rejected dd's request for deferral

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twosoups1972 · 02/09/2019 09:36

Dd was unwell in Year 13 with anxiety/depression. She was studying 3 A Levels and a BTEC and after some time at home getting well, she decided to just sit one A Level this year (English) and continue with the BTEC.

Her first choice of university (Birmingham) gave her an offer of an A in English and DDM for the BTEC. She got DDD* for the BTEC and a C in English which she was disappointed with, but Birmingham made the offer unconditional a few days before A Level results came out.

Dd really wants the place but doesn't want to go this year for 2 reasons - she doesn't feel ready especially after being ill, and secondly she wants to get the other 2 A Levels. She has a place at a Sixth Form college for this coming year to complete the A Levels.

However she has just found out that Birmingham have refused her request to defer the place as she didn't meet or exceed their standard offer which is AAB I think. Really upset for her as they gave her this (non-standard?) offer in the first place.

Does anyone have any experience of this and how should she proceed?

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twosoups1972 · 06/09/2019 17:07

I am so sorry to hear that @LIZS, what course has she applied for?

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SoonerthanIthought · 06/09/2019 20:11

Oh commiserations to dd LIZS, that is really hard for her. I assume she's decided not to go tomorrow, or is she in two minds now?

Twosoups, glad to hear your dd has things sorted, and hope she enjoys the gap year!

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LIZS · 06/09/2019 20:23

Probably best not to id the course 2soups, as awaiting final confirmation - hope you don't mind. No not going tomorrow, although until her place is formally withdrawn she cannot cancel the allocated accommodation and another student move in. Whole situation very frustrating.

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twosoups1972 · 07/09/2019 11:13

No of course not @LIZS I didn't mean to pry. What are her plans for this year now? I really hope things work out.

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LIZS · 07/09/2019 11:32

No, not prying just a bit sensitive atm. Hopefully work/volunteer, further study possibly overseas, travel. It would be more straightforward to organise if she had a definite place to look forward to though.