Would anyone like to divide all contributors into two groups; those who've paid through the nose and therefore, though recognising they've bought their own children advantage, couldn't possibly admit it on here; and state school kids' parents? 😂
If I could have afforded it, I would have sent mine private, King Eddie's in Southampton, in fact.
As it was, we did what we could afford which was to send them to the top performing comp in the area via buying a house in catchment.
We will never know if they would have done better at (I)GCSE or GCSE. But, I would like to know that I had done everything I could to advantage my children (over yours). There, I said it. Because RG only has so many places. Which are being filled by DC no cleverer than yours, just with more 'points' because the exams they sat afforded more points.
Then they sat in private sixth forms in small classes, forensically guided every step by people whose jobs depended on Bruno's uni offer grade being achieved. Tho, even if not, his parents will get every paper 'reviewed' to get him there.