Hi everyone, Rosie here
Firstly I just wanted to thank everyone who's commented - this has been seriously tough for me and I need all the help/advice I can get, so thank you for your time and kind words.
I'm still being treated by a herbalist in London at the moment - her name is Deborah Grant and she specialises in treating 'IC'. There are times when I think this treatment is working - I had a whole month when the constant feeling of needing to wee lessened from 6/10 to 3/10 - but overall I'm still feeling doubtful about my chances of ever being able to live a normal life. I'm considering asking for a referral to Professor James Malone-Lee, also based in London, who believes that 'IC' is a biofilm infection so treats with long-term, high-dose antibiotics. If anyone has any experience with either expert, please get in touch!
I'm very interested in what you have to say, nataliekitch, as I've researched BV a bit and wondered if it could have something to do with my condition. I've just ordered some vaginal pH testing strips from Amazon, and if they indicate a problem, I'll definitely ask my doctor about treating for BV. I'm so glad you found the answer for your problems eventually.
I agree that the attitude of some urologists is abysmal. I've just got off the phone with my boyfriend, and we both ended up crying in frustration/despair about how no one takes bladder problems seriously enough - maybe it's because they don't tend to be life-threatening, and largely affect women. The lack of research (and concern!) astounds me. I feel like 'IC' has well and truly ruined my life, and yet is regarded as a 'trivial' problem by the majority of the medical community.
Hi, LittlePeasMummy1, I'm so sorry you've been suffering for so long. I've done loads of research about the role hormones play in 'IC', and it seems that progesterone can cause/increase urinary frequency. Like you, my symptoms are generally worse when my oestrogen levels are low. Some people believe that this is because bacteria thrive in a low-oestrogen environment, and use it as evidence that 'IC' is really a biofilm infection. I'm not quite sure what I believe yet, but I definitely think that hormones play a part, because my problems all started after taking oral contraceptives. Within a month of starting the combined pill (Rigevidon) I got my first ever UTI, and within another month, I'd developed 'IC'. I'm off the pills now and would never touch them again, but sadly, I don't think the damage can be undone so easily.
I strongly believe that a healthy diet (whether anti-candida or not!) gives us the best chance of recovery (if there is a chance at all). I haven't had any sugar, carbohydrates, gluten, dairy, alcohol or caffeine for 6 months now, and I do feel healthier overall. As you said, LittlePeasMummy1, the link between food and bladder health seems random and unpredictable, but I'm persevering with the diet in the desperate hope that it will help.
I'm still reluctant to try the scary, conventional treatments - as far as I'm concerned, the fewer drugs, the better. I figure that anything that has side effects such as making your hair fall out can't be good for you! However, when I've given up on finding a 'cure', I will happily take all the drugs the doctors throw at me to cover up the symptoms, in the hope that I can get some quality of life back.
You're so right about the IC support groups being scary. That was why mum and I decided to post on here - COB and the ICN are full of people who've been suffering for years, whereas Mumsnet seemed to give a less biased sample!
Anyway, thanks again, everyone, and I'm sorry for the essay. I find it quite hard to convey how I'm feeling - I don't think they've invented words yet that adequately describe the despair and depression I've experienced throughout the last 7 months! I hope this has made some sort of sense, though - please feel free to contact me, via mum's account, if you've got any questions.
Wishing you all happiness and health,
Rosie xx