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Experiences and advice on glandular fever at 40...

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alabasterangel · 19/02/2013 22:31

Ok, looks like I've got it, weeks of feeling like I'm on the brink of flu which hasn't shifted. Blood tests have come back positive, she is retesting next week to confirm (not sure why that has to be done) but says she will see if the viral count is increasing or decreasing. I've had no sore throat, and no swollen glands, so hoping I have this mildy but I'm still pretty much wiped out by....

  • fatigue, like being pg early weeks
  • night sweats and chills
  • headaches
  • cold hands and feet, shivery
  • aching neck
  • aching eyes
  • no appetite
  • pain under my ribs (had a very slightly elevated ALT of 77 but feel myself this is probably due to excess wine?!)
  • feel low and snappy
  • vertigo, dizzy spells


I can manage to function okay when on painkillers, although when it's bad my eyes and shivers still seem to break through that.

Fairly sure in retrospect that I caught it from DS. Majority of the LO's at nursery came out in a pinprick rash and general unwellness about 5 weeks ago, went to GP she confirmed a virus but said she had no idea what it was, and within a few days he was okay. I've now learnt that's how it can present in young kids, and frankly I'm not surprised - shared chewed toys and the odd dummy on the floor that gets pinched by another and popped into the mouth. Not a surprise to me really!

Wondering what I'm in for relating to duration. Resting totally isn't an option, to children under 5 and a job, and a DH who is away quite a bit. Concerned about how this is going to affect us all.

Anyone got any advice?
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MummaO · 02/09/2019 07:35

Hey Lel09, sorry I’ve only just noticed your last message. I’m much the same, having good and bad days. Had a week away with the family last week which was lovely and relaxing. Am hoping to try a bit of yoga this week as I can’t stand not getting any exercise!! How are you doing? My doctor appointment will be next week.

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Lel09 · 21/09/2019 18:10

Hi
Sorry, did mean to reply. Think I was having a particularly rubbish day and then forgot.
How are you now? Did you start the yoga?
I’m becoming quite fed up now, I’ve improved slightly but still nowhere near back to normal. I’ve forgotten what normal is, certainly no exercise.
I’ve booked a holiday for the October half term and hope I’m ok for that.
X

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MummaO · 21/09/2019 23:14

Yep am much the same as you. Very tired and achy and very fed up! My doctor has said that he will be referring me to the CFS clinic if I am no better at our next review (mid October). X

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Lel09 · 22/09/2019 11:08

My husband knows someone else my age who is recovering after she developed ME from GF.... she recommended The Optimal Health Clinic in London..said they really helped her out.
I’ve been dreading hearing about ME & CFS...
I have several friends who said their GF lasted 6 months & none of them developed CFS so maybe it’s too early for that diagnosis.
I woke up this morning feeling weak.. stayed in bed till I felt better, had a shower & did some house stuff... now have to lie on the sofa as feel weak and shaky with a fuzzy head. Do you feel like that?
Can’t even go to the supermarket for long... how on earth are you working? X

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MummaO · 22/09/2019 11:34

I’m only working 3-mornings a week. I did too much on Friday and I’m paying for it now! I am praying it’s not CFS but it’s highly likely, it seems as though it’s very common after a virus and stress which I’ve had a fair bit of recently! Fingers, toes and everything crossed for us both xx 🤞🏼

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Lel09 · 22/09/2019 12:14

Let’s hope for a better week. X

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MummaO · 23/09/2019 17:35

Hey did you catch the doctor talking about GF today on the Jeremy Vine show?!? It was on radio 2, so you can get it on catch up if you missed it x

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Lel09 · 26/09/2019 16:05

Hi

I just listened to it on catch up.. sounds frightening doesn’t it.
I’ve done very little this week & feel better to it... in definitely improving, just needs to happen a bit quicker!!!
My GP says CFS shouldn’t be considered for at least 8 months after diagnosis of GF.

Hope you’re doing ok.. xx

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MummaO · 26/09/2019 17:40

Wow that’s really interesting to hear what your GP says....I’m being positive and hopeful! I am definitely better than I was, but still really struggling at times. Fingers crossed for us both xx

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Lel09 · 26/09/2019 21:51

Forgot to say also, my Dad spoke to a consultant GP he knows & told him about me... this GP said it doesn’t often result in CF which is good news.
So, yes, keep positive but rest a lot too.
From what I can gather, it usually lasts for around 6 months with full recovery in a year. X

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Ylluis28 · 01/03/2020 11:33

I strongly believe i got this after xmas and im still struggling with it - nearly three months on . I had a Full Blood count and other blood tests and doctors believe no signs of any concerns . They actually put it down to stress.

I have had all symptoms and my body is nothing like before , no energy what so ever .

I used to work full time , go to the gym 3-4 times a week , then home to cook and clean . So much energy and now bed ridden.

Ive been signed off work and had two go hospital on two ocasions due to heart palpitations and breathing probs .

Second ocassion in hospital they checked my heart _ecg and run blood tests. Doctor stated no sign of infection.

Ive never been so confused and concerned about my health .

Can blood tests come back normal whilst having GF ?

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