DD ate really well as a baby then at about 1.8 she got extremely fussy and difficult about meals. I adopted the policy of giving her a plate of whatever the rest of us were having and she either ate it or didn't. No replacements, no puddings if she didn't eat. Most of the time, she didn't. I've stuck it out for TWO YEARS and things haven't improved. She always eats breakfast (2 weetabix plus raisins). Lunch is OK: sandwiches, tomato soup, crackers and fruit etc. Dinner: a nightmare. She'll eat pasta and tomato sauce with olives, pasta with pesto, fish fingers, nice veggie sausages (we don't eat meat) but only sometimes. She used to eat lots of fish and prawn dishes that dh would cook, but not now.
So what do I do now? Do I continue the eat or don't policy? If so, how do I react? I usually take the plate away but make her stay at the table until we've all eaten. I try not to make a fuss, though this routine does get frustrating, particularly as sometimes she gets really upset and whiney when she sees what's on her plate and it's not something she wants to try, which suggests to me that she's hungry but won't try it. Or, if she doesn't want to eat what the rest of us are having, do I let her have bread and butter and hope boredom kicks in? Do I continue to make her stay at the table, or let her get down and be on her own?
I thought I could cope with this as ds1 (now 5.10) was very similar and ate very little between 1.8 and 3.8, but he now eats really well and will try things. He's even started eating broccoli! But there's just no signs at all that dd (now 3.9) is improving, and we're getting really frustrated!
Any thoughts anyone on this age-old problem, anyone? Aaaargh, this is making my head hurt.
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ponygirl · 24/10/2004 15:39
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